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Ernesto F. Padilla (1933-2000)
Mikki Lee Padilla
Elsie M. Padilla
Ernie Padilla
Danielle N. Padilla
Marissa and Milly
Lisa A. Padilla
Pete A. Padilla (Dr Pete)
Andrew M. Padilla
Patti Padilla
Stories About the Padilla Family
Misc page
Ernest F. 1941 – 1950
Ernest F. Padilla 1933 – 1940
Ernest F. 1951 – 1960
Ernest F. Padilla 1933 – 1940
Ernest F. 1961 – 1970
Ernest F. 1971 – 1980
Ernest F. 1981 – 1990
Ernest F. 1991 – 2000
Elsie M. Padilla 1934 – 1940
Elsie M. Padilla 1941 – 1950
Elsie M. Padilla 1934 – 1940
Elsie M. Padilla 1940 – 1949
Elsie M. Padilla 1950 – 1959
Elsie M. Padilla 1961 – 1969
Elsie M. Padilla 1970 – 1979
Elsie M. Padilla 1981 – 1990
Elsie M. Padilla 1981 – 1989
Elsie M. Padilla 1990 – 1999
Elsie M. Padilla 2001 – 2010
Elsie M. Padilla 2011 – Present ….
Ernie Padilla 1957 – 1959
Ernie Padilla 1960 – 1969
Ernie Padilla 1970 – 1979
Ernie Padilla 1980 – 1989
Ernie Padilla 1990 – 1999
Ernie Padilla 2000 – 2009
Ernie Padilla 2010 – Present …
Lisa A. Padilla 1960 – 1969
Lisa A. Padilla 1970 – 1979
Lisa A. Padilla 1980 – 1989
Lisa A. Padilla 1990 – 1999
Lisa A. Padilla 2000 – 2009
Lisa A. Padilla 2011 – Present …
Dr Pete A. Padilla 1961 – 1969
Dr Pete A. Padilla 1970 – 1979
Dr Pete 1980 – 1989
Dr Pete A. Padilla 1990 – 1999
Dr Pete A. Padilla 2000 – 2009
Dr Pete A. Padilla 2010 – Present ….
Andrew M. Padilla 1962 – 1969
Andrew M. Padilla 1970 – 1979
Andrew M. Padilla 1980 – 1989
Andrew M. Padilla 1990 – 1999
Andrew M. Padilla 2000 – 2009
Andrew M. Padilla 2010 – Present …
Patti Padilla 1964 – 1969
Patti Padilla 1970 – 1979
Patti Padilla 1980 – 1989
Patti Padilla 1990 – 1999
Patti Padilla 2000 – 2009
Patti Padilla 2010 – Present …
Padilla Family “Stuff”
Padilla Family Activities
Padilla Family Pets
Padilla Family Vacations
Elsie Padilla’s Relatives
Misc Padilla Family “Stuff”…
Elsie’s Brothers and Sisters
Elsie’s Dad & Mom …
Elsie’s Extended Family
A.I.T. 11-Bravo… INFANTRY
Ernie’s Service in Special Forces
Service in the 101st Airborne Division (Air Assault)
Airborne Training – “Jump School”
Basic Training
Sergeant Padilla’s Military Career…
Delta Force
Service in the 193rd Infantry Brigade
314 Quitman
GOOGS
My Brother’s NFL Christmas Gift.
Elsie Gets Some Awards from the Denver Mayor…
Dave (Richard) Trujillo (1951-1979)
Visiting Jake Plummer
Our training company faced a 12-mile forced march in the sub-freezing conditions of a Fort Leonard Wood winter. All week our drill sergeants kept reminding us about it!
On My Hunt for an Old-School Broncos Logo I Couldn’t Believe What Experienced.
Chris Segura
School Days (Portraits)
Connie W.
Diana May / Castellano
Val Valdez
Loveda Martinez
Suzi B.
Loyola Salazar
Toni Trujillo
J. J. W.
Alice Trujillo
A shy student asked me, “Dr Padilla, are you selling hotdogs?”
Mary Martinez
Stella Lujan
Betty Vasquez
Lou Vigil
Anselmo Trujillo
Ernest F.’s Relatives
Ernest F.’s Brothers and Sisters
Flora “Flo” Trujillo
Mom’s Clever Prank after Visiting Disneyland
My Friend Terry and the Blind Lady
My Brother’s Way to Get a CLUE
Heidi B.
Girlfriends
Denise Roman
Best Friends
BOOK LINK: Why We Fall In and Out of Love
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION
The 15 Keys to Understanding Relationships
CH-3 [Key#3]Why We Fall In Love: The Politically Correct Assumptions
CH-4 [Key#4] Why We Really Fall in Love: the Cold Hard Truth
CH-2 [Key#2] The Temporal Order: Three Stages; Three Different Skill Sets
CH-5 [Key#5] The Law Of Reversed Effort: Getting the Opposite Of What You Seek
The Law Of Reversed Effort: Getting the Opposite Of What You Seek
CH-6 [Key#6] The Principle of Least Interest: Whomever Cares the Least Has the MOST Power
CH-7 [Key#7] Saturation / Deprivation: Too Much of A Good Thing Can Be a Bad Thing
Love, Hate, versus Indifference: Knowing the Difference Is Vital
Pain versus Pleasure: Two Sides of the Same Coin.
Your Conditioning Index: Your League On a Scale Of 1-10.
Random Reinforcement: A Nearly Impossible Trap to Escape.
Who Has A Stronger Sex Drive? Mother Nature Has A Say-So.
Passion: Positive versus Negative- Passion Is Still Passion.
Gender Differences: Men and Women Are On Different Sheets Of Music.
Games People Play: Strategic Interaction.
ROLE THEORY
PERFORMANCE
FRONT STAGE
BACK STAGE
PROPS
SCRIPTS
“GIVING” INFORMATION
“GIVING OFF” INFORMATION
COVERING MOVE
UNCOVERING MOVE
COUNTER-UNCOVERING MOVE
INVOLVEMENT CONTOUR
TEAM PLAY
CH-1 [ Key#1] “Getting The Cheese”: Learning To Think Outside of the Box
GETTING IN: Establishing a Relationship.
Should You Always Start Off On Your Best Behavior?
When You Date/ Marry, You Also Date/ Marry Friends and Family.
You May Have To Kiss a Few Frogs Before You Find a Prince.
Understanding Your Competition: They May Actually Be a Hidden Ally.
“Settling” versus Patience: You Can’t Rush A Good Thing.
Does Your Soul Mate Have To Look Like a Supermodel?
Online Dating: Is there a Big Difference?
Does Age Matter? (Been There; Done That)
No One Wants To Date a Nun Or An Altar Boy.
I Can Only Fall in Love Backwards.
STAYING IN: Maintaining a Relationship
“Settling” versus Patience: You Can’t Rush A Good Thing.
“Collecting” Running Water: Facilitating Your Partner’s Escape
Have a Backbone: Always Stick Up For Yourself.
Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? Should You Lie to Keep the Peace?
Jealousy: Dealing with the Green-Eyed Monster.
The Six Types of Stimulation: Can “The One” Meet All Six?
[1] Spiritual Stimulation
[2] Recreational Stimulation
[3] Adventurous Stimulation
[4] Intellectual Stimulation
[5] Emotional Stimulation
[6] Physical Stimulation
“Intimacy” Versus Intimacy: A Peek Behind the Curtain.
Domestic Violence: Making Excuses for Bad Behavior.
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Is It Possible to Overcome Infidelity?
A Couple’s Identity Eclipse: Have Your Own Set of Friends and Interests.
The Six Stages of Love: Can Your Relationship Make it Through All Six?
Some Common Power Struggles Couples Face
Invested Effort.
Pornography: Its Easy Accessibility May Turn You Kinky.
GETTING OUT: Surviving A Breakup
The Three Stages of a Breakup: Denial, Acceptance, Empowerment.
Hurt: It’s Inevitable.
Initiator versus Partner: Whoever Pulls The Trigger Has a Head Start?
Your Transition Person: Coach, Drill Sgt., Sage, True Friend.
What Is Considered Progress? It’s All About the Net Gains.
The More You Date, the Better You Feel? It’s Likely To Backfire.
Your Head on a Swivel: Just When You Let Down Your Guard- BAM!
Prepare For the Unexpected: Keep An Open Mind.
Gender Differences: Be Willing To Read a Pink Book.
RRD: Revisionist Romance Disorder: Remembering Only the Good Stuff.
GETTING THE MOST OUT OF THIS WEBSITE
SUGGESTED READINGS
SUGGESTED WEBSITES
REFERENCES / BIBLIOGRAPHY
Acknowledgments
About the Author
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