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  • BOOK LINK: Why We Fall In and Out of Love
    • Table of Contents
    • INTRODUCTION
    • The 15 Keys to Understanding Relationships
      • CH-3 [Key#3]Why We Fall In Love: The Politically Correct Assumptions
      • CH-4 [Key#4] Why We Really Fall in Love: the Cold Hard Truth
      • CH-2 [Key#2] The Temporal Order: Three Stages; Three Different Skill Sets
      • CH-5 [Key#5] The Law Of Reversed Effort: Getting the Opposite Of What You Seek
      • The Law Of Reversed Effort: Getting the Opposite Of What You Seek
      • CH-6 [Key#6] The Principle of Least Interest: Whomever Cares the Least Has the MOST Power
      • CH-7 [Key#7] Saturation / Deprivation: Too Much of A Good Thing Can Be a Bad Thing
      • Love, Hate, versus Indifference: Knowing the Difference Is Vital
      • Pain versus Pleasure: Two Sides of the Same Coin.
      • Your Conditioning Index: Your League On a Scale Of 1-10.
      • Random Reinforcement: A Nearly Impossible Trap to Escape.
      • Who Has A Stronger Sex Drive? Mother Nature Has A Say-So.
      • Passion: Positive versus Negative- Passion Is Still Passion.
      • Gender Differences: Men and Women Are On Different Sheets Of Music.
      • Games People Play: Strategic Interaction.
        • ROLE THEORY
        • PERFORMANCE
        • FRONT STAGE 
        • BACK STAGE
        • PROPS
        • SCRIPTS 
        • “GIVING” INFORMATION 
        • “GIVING OFF” INFORMATION
        • COVERING MOVE 
        • UNCOVERING MOVE 
        • COUNTER-UNCOVERING MOVE 
        •  INVOLVEMENT CONTOUR 
        • TEAM PLAY 
      • CH-1 [ Key#1] “Getting The Cheese”: Learning To Think Outside of the Box
    • GETTING IN: Establishing a Relationship.
      • Should You Always Start Off On Your Best Behavior?
      • When You Date/ Marry, You Also Date/ Marry Friends and Family.
      • You May Have To Kiss a Few Frogs Before You Find a Prince.
      • Understanding Your Competition: They May Actually Be a Hidden Ally.
      • “Settling” versus Patience: You Can’t Rush A Good Thing.
      • Does Your Soul Mate Have To Look Like a Supermodel?
      • Online Dating: Is there a Big Difference?
      • Does Age Matter? (Been There; Done That)
      • No One Wants To Date a Nun Or An Altar Boy.
      • I Can Only Fall in Love Backwards.
    • STAYING IN: Maintaining a Relationship
      • “Settling” versus Patience: You Can’t Rush A Good Thing.
      • “Collecting” Running Water: Facilitating Your Partner’s Escape
      • Have a Backbone: Always Stick Up For Yourself.
      • Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? Should You Lie to Keep the Peace?
      • Jealousy: Dealing with the Green-Eyed Monster.
      • The Six Types of Stimulation: Can “The One” Meet All Six?
        • [1] Spiritual Stimulation
        • [2] Recreational Stimulation
        • [3] Adventurous Stimulation
        • [4] Intellectual Stimulation 
        • [5] Emotional Stimulation
        • [6] Physical Stimulation
      • “Intimacy” Versus Intimacy: A Peek Behind the Curtain.
      • Domestic Violence: Making Excuses for Bad Behavior.
      • Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Is It Possible to Overcome Infidelity?
      • A Couple’s Identity Eclipse: Have Your Own Set of Friends and Interests.
      • The Six Stages of Love: Can Your Relationship Make it Through All Six?
        • Some Common Power Struggles Couples Face
      • Invested Effort.
      • Pornography: Its Easy Accessibility May Turn You Kinky.
    • GETTING OUT: Surviving A Breakup
      • The Three Stages of a Breakup: Denial, Acceptance, Empowerment.
      • Hurt: It’s Inevitable.
      • Initiator versus Partner: Whoever Pulls The Trigger Has a Head Start?
      • Your Transition Person: Coach, Drill Sgt., Sage, True Friend.
      • What Is Considered Progress? It’s All About the Net Gains.
      • The More You Date, the Better You Feel? It’s Likely To Backfire.
      • Your Head on a Swivel: Just When You Let Down Your Guard- BAM!
      • Prepare For the Unexpected: Keep An Open Mind.
      • Gender Differences: Be Willing To Read a Pink Book.
      • RRD: Revisionist Romance Disorder: Remembering Only the Good Stuff.
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      • SUGGESTED READINGS
      • SUGGESTED WEBSITES
      • REFERENCES / BIBLIOGRAPHY
      • Acknowledgments
      • About the Author

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November 20, 2014Relationshipsattraction, dating, love, pete padilla, relationship advice, relationshipsDr Padilla

This website serves as an online Padilla family photo album. Start here to view Dr. Pete’s personal family’s history.

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This website also contains a link to view Dr. Pete’s forthcoming book on relationships. To access the book’s contents, click on the blue hyperlink below.

Why We Fall In and Out of Love: Understanding Attraction, Love, Relationships and Breaking Up. 

Another way to access the link to this book’s content is to click on the link located just below the blue-colored field (as seen in the above image).

Or you can CLICK HERE to first go to the book’s TABLE OF CONTENTS.

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